get your pens and books guys. might wanna jot this down. =)
50 Things You Don’t Have To Do
1. You don’t have to lecture, yell, or scold.
2. You don’t have to micromanage.
3. You don’t have to ignore
misbehavior.
4. You don’t have to be unlikable.
5. You don’t have to tolerate
call-outs and interruptions.
6. You don’t have to use bribery.
7. You don’t have to walk on
eggshells around difficult students.
8. You don’t have to give false
praise.
9. You don’t have to send students
to the office.
10. You don’t have to implore your
students to pay attention.
11. You don’t have to say things
you don’t truly believe.
12. You don’t have to be humorless,
stern, or overly serious.
13. You don’t have to repeat
yourself over and over again.
14. You don’t have to work on
building community.
15. You don’t have to beg or coax
or convince your students into behaving.
16. You don’t have to waste time
and attention on difficult students.
17. You don’t have to do more or
say more to have better control.
18. You don’t have to show anger or
lose your cool.
19. You don’t have to lower your
behavior standards.
20. You don’t have to talk so much,
so often, or so loud.
21. You don’t have to have an
antagonistic or
demanding relationship with difficult students.
22. You don’t have to shush your
students or ask repeatedly for quiet.
23. You don’t have to give frequent
reminders and exhortations.
24. You don’t have to show hurt or
disappointment to get your message across.
25. You don’t have to guide,
direct, or handhold your students through every moment of the day.
26. You don’t have to be thought of
as a “mean” teacher.
27. You don’t have to use threats
or intimidation to get students to behave.
28. You don’t have to have friction
or resentment between you and any of your students.
29. You don’t have to use behavior
contracts to turn around difficult students.
30. You don’t have to give over-the-top
or gratuitous praise.
31. You don’t have to plead with
your students to follow your directions.
32. You don’t have to use different
strategies for different students.
33. You don’t have to tolerate a
noisy, chaotic, or unruly classroom.
34. You don’t have to talk over
your students or move on until you’re ready.
35. You don’t have to accept being
disrespected, cursed at, or ignored.
36. You don’t have use complicated
classroom management methods.
37. You don’t have to be fearful of
holding your students strictly accountable.
38. You don’t have to hold
time-consuming community circles or hashing-out sessions.
39. You don’t have to be negative
or critical to motivate your students.
40. You don’t have to cover up your
personality or hold back from having fun.
41. You don’t have to tolerate
arguing and talking back.
42. You don’t have to ask two or
three times or more for your students’ attention.
43. You don’t have to offer praise
for expected behavior.
44. You don’t have to rely on
parents, the principal, or anyone else to turn around difficult students.
45. You don’t have to be
overbearing or suffocating to have excellent control.
46. You don’t have to give
incessant talking-tos to difficult and disrespectful students.
47. You don’t have to ask students
why they misbehaved or force assurances from them.
48. You don’t have to have a
boring, no-fun classroom to keep a lid on whole-class misbehavior.
49. You don’t have to be tense,
tired, and sick of dealing with misbehavior.
50. You never, ever have to be at
the mercy of your students.